Destination Wedding Etiquette

You’ve been invited to your friend’s wedding, and you can’t wait. Then, you see it is a destination wedding. There is going to be the cost of airfare, hotel, transportation, and food. Then, there is the gift !? Do you need to give something or not? What is the etiquette for gift giving at a destination wedding?

According to a 2016 survey conducted by The Knot49% of all couples had a “destination wedding.” A destination wedding is one that is held at least 200 or more away from their hometown.

This shouldn’t come as a big surprise. More and more budget-savvy couples are forgoing the often-overwhelming expense of a local ceremony and reception in favor of exchanging vows in memorable locations. In the mainland US, the top locations for destination weddings are Florida, California, and Nevada, while couples looking for an even more exotic spot are most likely to choose the Caribbean , Mexico, or Hawaii. Because these are popular vacation locations as well, attending a destination wedding as a guest takes some forethought.

After all, why bother with decorations when a Caribbean sunset will do the trick? However, while destinations are often the ideal solution for brides and grooms, these getaway trips can raise financial concerns for guests.

DESTINATION WEDDING ETIQUETTE

If you’re invited to a destination wedding, there are many elements to consider. Can you afford the flight? Is there a minimum night stay at the resort? Many wedding-friendly hotels require that guests stay at least three to four nights, especially during the busy season. If the wedding is an adults-only affair and you have children, will you be able to find childcare or bribe their grandparents? Do you have enough vacation time at work? Make a list of possible expenses and decide if it’s even feasible for you to go.

If you can’t, and there are no plans for an “at-home” reception, feel free to send a gift (in the standard amount) when you post your RSVP….